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Monday, 15 November 2010
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Saturday, 23 October 2010
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Wednesday, 6 October 2010
Im getting teased at school
i hate hate hate hate hate hate hate life and feel extremely depressed
plz help
Dear Random wotsit,
I'm so sorry to hear that you're being teased and that your depressed, Thank you for coming to us with your problem :) We hope to help you. :)
Have you told your teachers about people teasing you? You should. If your teachers at school don't know then they can't help you. Tell your mom too, she can help you as well. Tell friends, they'll be there to support you through out school.
Why is it you're depressed if I may ask? The teasing? I'd suggest going with the flow of talking to your parents, teachers and friends and having their support. If you'd like to have more 1-2-1 support make an account on www.childline.org.uk and they'll be happy to help you with the problem if it gets worse. :) I hope this helps.
~ Kellie
Wednesday, 8 September 2010
Dear Lehcar
Dear Lehcar,
I'm so sorry to hear that!
If people are being mean to you, you really ought to tell your mom. The head teacher at school, a teacher you trust or jsut tell an adult whom you know will listen to you. One of these sugestions should be able to support you and get something done about those whom are mean to you. Your Bf could support you too if you tell him. Don't keep things bottled up.
If you run away from home it can cause more problems. There's so many risks that I'm sure none of your family would want that. Please don't risk you're life. Because people have died from starvation, Coldness. and much more! If your sister beats you up, tell your mom she should help you. She shouldn't swear at you are anything of the sort! You can't let this bottle up and bottle up because eventually it will over-fill. Tell someone about it!
I think most people hate school, or have their dis-likes about it, There's always going to be things that people don't like. School subjects is one of the most common problem. Unfortunately we have to go along with lessons and subjects.. They have to teach them. If you're struggling in a lesson don't be afraid to raise your hand and ask for help! With lunch, are you able to take a packed lunch to school? If so then do that, If not then point out to a teacher the food the school is providing you don't like or are allergic to, they should get something in that you will eat.
I hope this helps, if not please comment and tell us how to improve!
~ Kellie
Friday, 3 September 2010
Dear Kellie.
There's this grade 7 teacher in my school that taught me math last year. She has bad breath and MAJOR B.O, and she dosn't know how to dress herself. Whenever she came over to help with a problem, you'd be able to smell her gross breath and her B.O.
Any suggestions for her?
-Hubert Cumberdale-
Dear Hubert,
Thank you for submitting your problem, you could put it to her in a polite manner that she does smell a little.. but try not to be.. rude in anyway.. If she takes it the wrong way.. explain to her that youe not meaning to be rude but your telling her to help her with her social life.
I hope this helps,
~Kellie
Dear Embaresed
Hi i recently asked out a girl and she said no which im fine with but she asked if she could tell a freind what i did and i said yes but then i found out who it was the gobbyest kid in the school what shall i do if he told people? or what shall i say if he hasent yet?
Dear Embaresed,
If the girl saod to keep it a secret, then her friend should keep it a secret, no matter if hes the gobby kid or not, If he's told people, try not to make a big fuss, if you do there's bound to be someone out there who could make things worse. If the girl you asked didn't say keep it a secret.. then you know what people are like it gets passed, If this happens don't be too surprized. If it bothers you tell the girl you asked and try to stop it.
On the otherhand if he hasn't said anything yet, don't worry he might not do, yet if he does follow what I said in the paragraph above.
I hope this helped if not please do comment and tell us. Thanks.
~Kellie
Dear lehcar
- i hate life and school.
- I want to run away from my house.
- Please help
I'm sorry to hear your feeling this way, unfourtunately, I'm unable to help your situation because you haven't given us enough infomation, for more help, support, 1-2-1 chats, go to www.childline.org.uk they'll beable to give you more support. We're happy to help in other situations though.
With childline please make an account to 1-2-1 Chat a counsellor. :)
We're sorry about not being able to help you.
~ Kellie
Dear ichar
If you are not wanting to go to the events, you could talk your friends and ask them if they want to go out (not bf/gf type go out) with you or hang out at the park or something along those lines, then talk it over with your parents and tell them that you don't like going to the events and that they bore you. Say to them that your friend asked you if you want to go hang with her.
Don't let your period stop you from doing things you like, try getting Always pads then you can do anything you like with out having a problem.
I do realise that this doesn't give alot of advice but we're always happy to help.
~Kellie
Wednesday, 1 September 2010
Dear Anonymous
Hello.I'm scared that I'm going to get too much homework (im going to 7th grade)AND I WANT A SOCIAL LIFE!!! what should i do if i get too much homework or i dont under stand it? Anonymous
Dear Anonymous,
Home-work is a common problem/worry, Don't worry too much, Once you've gotten your homework take a look at it, and think about the days it got to be handed in. Try having a schedual and do perhaps a couple of sheets a day, You could also try having a 30minute rest once you get home from school, then cracking on with it so you have have the evening free.
If you don't understand your homework ask your parents to help you, If they're busy ask a friend you can get in touch with, if you still don't understand it go to your teacher and ask them to explain.
Try asking your friends if they want to go to the park with you, after school and such it helps get your social life up.
I hope this helped. If it didn't please comment and tell us how we can improve.
~Kellie
Tuesday, 31 August 2010
Dear Amythest
Im kinda "nervous" that i wont be like in with the trends when i go back to school. Could ya help me? I dont know whether i will have ppl to hangout with coz my two "friends" who i hanged out with have left now :(
Dear Amythest,
We're sorry to hear that you're nervous about returning back to school. If you're not in with the trends to start with, Don't worry, theres surely going to be other people who are in the same situation, After you've been at school for a few ways and gotten used to the style and trends you'll know how to fit in.
Making friends after good ones have left seems like a tough thing to do but don't forget the times you had with them. Be out-going and make new friends, start out by making a conversation with people you think are nice and are the type of people you'd be friends with. Asking questions about them is a good starter, many people like to talk about themselfs, this alos gives to the oppertunity to create another conversation later on. For instance they may say I love art, you could reply and say ooh, whos your favorite artist or have you done any drawings/artwork lately?
We hope this helped you with your problems (:
~Kellie
Monday, 30 August 2010
Welcome!
There will be guides for there about everything to do with school. Bullies, relationships, lessons, teachers, Emotional things and way more!
Be sure to check back for more stuff later! :)
~Kellie and Hannah~